The Spirituality of Sexuality with Juli Slattery
Finding a place for God in our spirituality.
In this conversation, Keith Simon interviews Julie Slattery, the president of Authentic Intimacy, about navigating issues of sexuality and faith. They discuss the silence and polarity around sexuality in both culture and the church, the spiritual aspect of sex, the differences between sex inside and outside of marriage, and the misconceptions surrounding women and men's sexuality. They also address the impact of purity culture and the need for a more holistic biblical narrative of sexuality....
Read MoreIn this conversation, Keith Simon interviews Julie Slattery, the president of Authentic Intimacy, about navigating issues of sexuality and faith. They discuss the silence and polarity around sexuality in both culture and the church, the spiritual aspect of sex, the differences between sex inside and outside of marriage, and the misconceptions surrounding women and men's sexuality. They also address the impact of purity culture and the need for a more holistic biblical narrative of sexuality. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of understanding and stewarding our sexuality in a way that aligns with God's design.
Takeaways
- Sexuality is a challenging and rewarding field to navigate, as it involves addressing issues of confusion, brokenness, and trauma.
- Sex is more than a physical act; it is a spiritual experience that requires vulnerability, acceptance, and commitment.
- Cohabitation often leads to less stability in relationships compared to marriage, as it lacks the commitment and covenantal aspect of marriage.
- Sexuality is not limited to married individuals; single people also have sexual desires and need to steward their sexuality in a healthy way.
- Intimacy is built on safety, acceptance, and commitment, and it is essential for healthy relationships.
- There are differences between men and women in how they approach and experience sexuality, but it is important to avoid generalizations and recognize individual variations.
- Purity culture can have negative effects, such as blaming women for men's lust and creating shame around female sexuality.
- A more holistic biblical narrative of sexuality emphasizes personal responsibility, healthy boundaries, and understanding the goodness of our sexuality.
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Juli Slattery
Dr. Juli Slattery is a clinical psychologist, author, speaker and the president/co-founder of...
Read MoreDr. Juli Slattery is a clinical psychologist, author, speaker and the president/co-founder of Authentic Intimacy. Juli earned her college degree at Wheaton College, an MA in psychology from Biola University, and an MS and a Doctorate degree in Clinical Psychology from Florida Institute of Technology.
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