Rethinking Sex with Christine Emba
How our culture's faulty assumptions about sex are harming us all
“Anything goes.” That’s what modern-day sexual ethics has taught us. So, why then, do so many of our sexual experiences lead to frustration, disappointment, and shame? Today, Keith talks with Christine Emba, the author of “Rethinking Sex” and a columnist at the Washington Post, to discover more. Christine starts by explaining why she walked away from evangelicalism and how evangelical traditions surrounding sex contributed to her decision. She unpacks the institutional failures of the church...
Read More“Anything goes.” That’s what modern-day sexual ethics has taught us. So, why then, do so many of our sexual experiences lead to frustration, disappointment, and shame? Today, Keith talks with Christine Emba, the author of “Rethinking Sex” and a columnist at the Washington Post, to discover more. Christine starts by explaining why she walked away from evangelicalism and how evangelical traditions surrounding sex contributed to her decision. She unpacks the institutional failures of the church that she believes have led to to today’s mass dechurching movement. Then, she shares some of our culture’s faulty (and harmful!) assumptions about sex, including confusion around consent being enough and men and women’s unwillingness to admit their differences. Plus, how does she define masculinity vs. femininity, and is it harder to be a man in today’s world than it was a generation ago? How can men and women work together to rethink the topic of sex in a more constructive, virtuous way? Listen now!
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Christine Emba
Christine Emba is an opinion columnist and member of the Editorial Board. She is the author of
Read MoreChristine Emba is an opinion columnist and member of the Editorial Board. She is the author of "Rethinking Sex: A Provocation." Before coming to The Post in 2015, Christine was the Hilton Kramer Fellow in Criticism at the New Criterion and a deputy editor at the Economist Intelligence Unit, focusing on technology and innovation. She grew up in Virginia and holds an A.B. in public and international affairs from Princeton University.
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